Solo travel doesn’t mean lonely travel. In fact, some of the best connections you’ll ever make happen when you’re out there exploring the world on your own. Sure, the idea of walking into a room full of strangers might sound terrifying, but trust me, it’s easier (and more fun!) than you think.
Here’s how to make friends while solo travelling and turn your trip into an adventure filled with amazing people.
1. Stay in Social Accommodations
If you want to meet people, hostels are the MVPs of solo travel. They’re designed for being social. Look for hostels with organised events like pub crawls, walking tours, or game nights. Most people I have meet at hostels have been over the free breakfast or just starting a conversation in the common area. If hostels aren’t your vibe, guesthouses, or co-living spaces.
2. Join Group Activities
Activities and tours are great for meeting like-minded travellers. Whether it’s a cooking class, a hiking tour, or a snorkeling trip, you’ll naturally bond with people over shared experiences. You’ll might end up with a new friend group for the rest of the day (or longer).
Tip! – If you join a walking tour in the morning, get chatting to people and see if anyone wants to go out for lunch afterwards. It is a great natural step to making a new friend!
3. Start Small: Say Hi
Sometimes, all it takes is a simple “Hi” to start a conversation. Smile, make eye contact, and ask a casual question like, “Where are you from?” or “How long have you been travelling?” Most people are just as eager to connect as you are, and breaking the ice can lead to some pretty amazing chats.
4. Embrace Solo-Friendly Apps
Technology is your friend when it comes to meeting people. Apps like Meetup and Couchsurfing If you book your hostel through hostelworld, they have a great chat feature to connect with other travellers in the same city.
5. Hang Out in Common Areas
Whether you’re in a hostel, a coffee shop, or a co-working space, spend time in shared spaces. Bring a book, your journal, or your laptop and just be present. It’s amazing how often a casual “What are you working on?” or “Have you tried the food here?” can turn into a full-on conversation.
Tip! – If you meet someone, ask if they would want to go grab some food with you, nothing bonds people more than food! And it is a very easy in.
6. Say Yes to Invitations
Sometimes, making friends is as simple as saying yes. Got invited to dinner by the group from your hostel? Say yes. Someone suggests a beach day? Say yes. Even if it’s slightly out of your comfort zone, these are the moments that lead to unforgettable memories.
7. Take Part in Local Events
Check out local festivals, markets, or community gatherings. Not only will you soak up the culture, but you’ll also have the chance to meet locals and other travellers. Plus, nothing bonds people faster than dancing in the streets at a festival.
8. Be Open to All Types of Connections
Your new friends don’t have to be the same age, background, or even speak the same language as you. Some of the most rewarding connections come from embracing diversity and learning from people with completely different perspectives.
9. Use Your Hobbies to Connect
Love yoga? Take a class. Obsessed with photography? Join a photo walk. Into books? Find a local book club or literary event. Sharing a hobby with someone is one of the easiest ways to form a connection.
10. Travel Slowly
When you’re constantly on the move, it can be harder to build meaningful connections. Slow down, stay in one place for a while, and you’ll have more time to form genuine friendships. Plus, you’ll get to know the local community, which is just as valuable.
11. Be Yourself
This might sound cheesy, but it’s true: the best way to make friends is to be unapologetically you. Don’t stress about trying to fit in or impress anyone. The right people will vibe with your energy, quirks and all.
12. Don’t Be Afraid to Go It Alone
Ironically, one of the best ways to meet people is to spend time by yourself. Sitting solo at a bar, joining a group tour without a buddy, or exploring a market on your own makes you approachable. People are more likely to strike up a conversation when they see you’re not already deep in a group.
Solo travel is about so much more than just seeing new places. It’s about personal growth, stepping out of your comfort zone, and connecting with people in ways you never imagined. So, don’t let the fear of being alone hold you back. You’ve got this—and trust me, the world is full of incredible people just waiting to meet you.
Now go book that solo trip!
